SO, YOUR mother used to tell
you that little girls were made of sugar and spice and all things nice; well
boys, we’re sorry to say that your mother was wrong. Even if you think your
girlfriend is the purest of women, everyone keeps secrets and your girlfriend
isn’t exempt.
To find out what your
girlfriend will never tell you, check out the list below.
Money matters
Okay, we didn’t miss the
memo and yes we do know that it’s the 21st century, but according to studies
women do like men who have money. One study found that 64 per cent of women
would still prefer their men to earn more than them. A study from the British
Journal of Psychology confirms that women are attracted to men who drive
expensive cars.
If you’re thinking that your
girl doesn’t want a man with money and that she’s happy earning all the cash
whilst you sit on the couch catching up with trash TV, think again; she’ll
never tell you that she wants you to be rich because it’s bad taste, so you’ll
never know the truth.
She was flirting
Flirting is something we all
do, but your girlfriend seems to flirt with everyone and anything. So, what
should you do? Confront her and kick up a fuss? Chances are, she’ll just say
she was being friendly. Although seeing your girl flirt with other men is
wounding, scientists say that women flirt to get what they want in life and you
could benefit from their fluttering eyes as well.
Researchers from the
University of California and the London School of Economics conducted studies
into female charm and found that flirting makes men feel good so that women can
get what they want. The study suggests women who flirt get around 20 per cent
off of the original price of the car they were buying.
She wants a white wedding
When you were dating, you
both shared the same common fear of big, overindulgent, frivolous white
weddings. Yet, since you’ve popped the question your girl seems to have
changed. All she can think about is walking down that aisle and rather than the
quirky, mellow wedding you both discussed in your dating days, you’re getting a
princess-themed ceremony at a big, expensive country club.
Even if your girl thinks she
doesn’t want a big, white wedding, secretly, under all of her indie, cool
charm, she does. It’s as if the white dress and bank-breaking décor is
hardwired into every girl’s brains and it’s practically going against nature to
ask for a low-key do.
Sex is important
Do you constantly feel like
you have to beg for sex? Do you find yourself doing chores just to get her into
bed? You are not alone my friend. Researchers found that men who did chores
around the house got 50 per cent more sex than those who didn’t. Could it be
that because women have less desire to have sex than us guys that they are
using sex as a reward for chores?
Maybe, but gentlemen, a
study undertaken by Kinsey Institution found that women felt being sexually satisfied
was a priority when it came to being happy in a long-term relationship. So,
putting these two studies together means that women do care about sex and that
maybe they’re just telling us they don’t need it so that we do the dishes; just
putting it out there.
That she doesn’t orgasm
It’s been drummed into girls
that telling you she doesn’t orgasm when you have sex with her will shatter
you. Yet 16 per cent of women are thought to never achieve orgasms, whilst 26
per cent of women reported faking an orgasm during sex in a study of 50,000
women from the US, Australia and the UK.
Yet, in the midst of wild,
hot sex how can you tell that she’s faking it? Well, like us, when women come
they are pretty uninhibited and just go with it. If you look at your girl and
she seems pretty controlled then she might be faking. If you think she might be
faking, ask her what she’d like you to do to her in bed and ask her for a
little guidance.
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