ACCUSED...
A women's rights NGO has been accused of defending an alleged sexual offender
within its own ranks.
By : ANISAH SHUKRY
PETALING JAYA: An
established feminist organisation set up to protect women and women’s rights
has ironically been accused of defending an alleged sexual offender within its
own ranks.
The All Women’s Action
Society (Awam) had, in April, deleted all allegations on its Facebook page of
having elected a 'sexual offender' to an office-bearer within the organisation.
The organisation also sought
to silence its accusers by blocking those who had posted these allegations on
its wall, including the victim herself.
In defending its move, Awam
wrote: “We are compelled to categorically state that [a domestic inquiry on the
incident] did not find the accused to have committed sexual misconduct or
sexual harassment or molestation as alluded to in various Facebook comments.”
However, the results of the
inquiry suggests otherwise.
In a letter to the victim on
the outcome of the 2010 inquiry, sighted by FMT, then-Awam president Haslinah
Yacob wrote:
“We refer to the complainant
dated April 24, 2010, alleging that [the perpetrator] has ‘grabbed the breast
of [the complainant] on April 8, 2009, during dinner between the hours of
8pm-9pm, at the Fish Shop in Bangsar Village.”
“We write to inform that
after due inquiry, we conclude that the above action did take place and that
the [perpetrator] has misconducted herself,” wrote Haslinah in the letter,
dated July 1, 2010.
Defining sexual harassment
Awam defines sexual
harassment on its website as “receiving any unwanted conduct of sexual nature
including sexual comments, fondling, lewd gestures, jokes, e-mails, SMSes,
pornographic pictures, coercion and more.”
On this basis, the fact that
it acknowledged in the outcome of the inquiry that the perpetrator had grabbed
the complainant’s breast, yet later denied on its wall that any sexual
misconduct had taken place, suggests a deliberate cover-up.
The complainant, who spoke
to FMT on condition of anonymity, said that the members of the inquiry had
earlier on glossed over the incident by implying it was a case of two
“intimate” friends “playing” and that it had gone too far.
“We were definitely not
playing around – we were just two friends having dinner, and she reached over
to me and grabbed my breast all of a sudden,” the victim told FMT during a
recent interview.
“I felt so shocked, I
couldn’t believe what had happened. Only the stunned expressions of nearby
diners proved that she had actually done that.”
“I started feeling sick as I
was driving home and vomited once I got home. For days I felt the pressure of
her hand on my breast and felt dirty and degraded,” she recalled, choking with
tears.
She said she had delayed
lodging a complaint to Awam for a year in favour of dealing with the issue on
her own, as the perpetrator was a friend of 16 years and a leading feminist in
the Malaysian movement.
However, when the
perpetrator allegedly failed to seek treatment as requested by the complainant,
the latter turned to Awam to take action against the perpetrator as well as to
establish whether or not the “molestation” actually took place.
Molester turned office
bearer?
In a letter to the victim
disclosing the inquiry results, Haslinah had acknowledged that the
breast-grabbing incident had taken place and due disciplinary action would be
taken against the perpetrator.
Although the details of the
disciplinary action were not disclosed and the victim had reservations over how
the probe was conducted, she said she had no choice but to accept the outcome’s
inquiry and move on.
But, two years later, the
angst and pain came flooding back when she learned that the very same
perpetrator had been promoted to a key position on Awam’s board in March 2012.
Outraged, she and several
other concerned friends posted their objections on the organisation’s wall –
only to have their posts deleted and their accounts blocked from commenting.
“Under the circumstances,
Awam can no longer allow these allegations to be published on our Facebook Page
as they expose Awam to legal action as host of this public space,” Awam wrote
on its Facebook page.
“All past and future posts
related to this matter will for this reason be deleted.”
Hurt and confused, the
victim e-mailed Awam president Ho Yock Lin for an explanation on the promotion,
but was told that the perpetrator’s case had already been addressed and the
matter closed in 2010.
She was also informed that
the perpetrator had been elected by Awam’s members in accordance with the
organisation’s constitution, and that prior to the election, a notice of
contesting members and the positions contested was duly informed to all Awam
members.
“By putting into office a
person who sexually assaulted a woman, Awam has gone against its core values as
a ‘feminist’ organisation and one which campaigns against violence towards
women,” the victim said.
Awam said it would respond
after holding an internal meeting on this matter.
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