CRADLE....Lacey
Buchanan cradling Christian who was born with no eyes.
A mum whose son was born
with no eyes has made an inspiring video - to tell the world how much she loves
him. Lacey Buchanan, from Woodbury, Tennessee in America is seen cradling son
Christian to her chest as she tells their story with handwritten cards.
During the seven-minute film
she explains both the joy and despair she has faced since her beloved boy was
born in February 2011 with a rare form of cleft palate.
One of just 50 in the world
to suffer from a Tessier cleft - where the parts of the face do not fuse
together in the womb - Christian could at first not close his mouth and had no
eyes.
Lacey describes her and
husband Chris' fear and heartache: "Our baby boy was blind. We were
heartbroken.
"We didn't know what to
do, or how to raise a child who couldn't see."
Faced with stares and snide
comments everywhere she took him, Lacey describes how she was "miserable"
to start with.
She holds up a card saying:
"One girl even told me I was a horrible person for not aborting Christian
in utero."
But then an amazing thing
happened - Christian grew into a giggler.
Now the people he meets
giggle with him. As Lacey says: "Anyone who meets Christian falls in love
with him pretty quickly."
She then adds: "He is
the love of my life".
Law student Lacey, 25, met
husband Chris when they were 15 and the pair wed at 21.
She explains with the cards
how she fell pregnant at 23 and how excited the couple were to discover they
were having a boy.
Beaming at the memory, Lacey
then sobers and holds up the words: "A week later, we got a phone call.
Something was wrong with Christian."
Doctors feared their child
had developmental problems and warned Lacey she faced the strong possibility of
miscarrying.
As devout Christians, Lacey
and Chris prayed their child would live and refused to consider an abortion.
On February 18 last year,
Lacey gave birth at Vanderbilt Children's Hospital in Nashville.
Christian was rushed to
intensive care and operated on at just fours days old.
After fours weeks, he was
finally allowed home and the hard work really started.
But just over a year later,
Christian is thriving - "growing and healthy". Laughing at things
that tickle him despite his blindness, Lacey's boy is an inspiration.
The proud mum holds up
pictures of her smiling son before explaining that the family are becoming
known around the world.
She says: "People
started finding me on Facebook. They told me how Christian inspired them. And
how beautiful he is."
Now, Lacey admits:
"Those judgmental glances and whispers don't really bother me anymore.
Because I know he is beautiful. Inside and out."
She then puts down the cards
that tell her incredible story to turn Christian to the camera and show him off
proudly to the world.
Lacey's love letter to the
boy she never gave up hope on is now a global hit.
Since uploading the clip to
YouTube in March, she has been inundated with words of support from around the
world.
Writing on her blog, Leading
The Blind, she says: "I am absolutely blown away by the response that the
video has had.
"I never imagined it
would be this big. Thank you so much to everyone who is supporting us in our
journey!"
Lacey now plans to finish
law school and specialise in disability advocacy law, because "I want to
be able to help people like Christian" (thesun.co.uk)
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